What is a pillar of a community?
Without seeking praise, someone who works tirelessly to make the town around them a better place to live? A business which is as much a landmark as a store? An event which on a yearly basis brings the community closer together?
In short, a pillar is that which provides support for, promotes togetherness in and allows for growth across a community, all at the same time.
In late October 2005, The Clarkston News asked for submissions as to who or what are the Pillars of Clarkston. This week, we are happy to kick off the series with three individuals nominated by our readers.
When asking whether or not Clarkston schools athletics are a Pillar of Clarkston, one only has to look as far as the parking lots at the high school during football games on rainy fall nights or in the dead of winter as the basketball team tilts towards the playoffs. The lots, packed to the gills are a tell tale sign of how much the community cares about their Wolves.
Those looking for further evidence need only listen to long time public address announcer Dale Ryan welcome everyone from grandmas and uncles to a sporting event. Or look at the way Clarkston fans pack the visitors? stands for playoff games, or better yet, just for games.
Maybe things would be different if the Clarkston schools were set up like so many of the districts in Oakland County, splitting the high school population across two or three locations.
But the emotional heart of the community is firmly wrapped around the highs and lows of the Wolves and the Wolves alone. And while there may not be any story-book cross town rivalry each year, everyone, from the coaches to the players to the fans enjoys the action all the same.
In Clarkston rivals are not born, they are forged through years of tough competition. Prime examples of these coal-fed competitions are football games or wrestling matches against Lake Orion or basketball games against Pontiac Northern.
?(Clarkston) kids go home and say ‘I can’t wait to play football or basketball or run cross country for Jamie LaBrosse,? said Mel Vaara, who serves as a historian for CHS athletics and last year wrote a retrospective on Clarkston sports for The Clarkston News.
‘Feeding the kids well when they are young has them coming back for more. You are whetting their appetite and they just can’t wait to get the main course in high school,? added Vaara.
True to their Wolves moniker, the Clarkston High School athletic programs take care to ensure the cubs grow into strong members of the pack.
The premier example of this is Clarkston Athletic Director and Basketball Coach Dan Fife’s McGrath Basketball league, which he has run for the past 24 years.
‘With McGrath, one of the whole ideas was just to get kids playing. Back when I started 24 years ago, there was nothing going on in the rec department, so I started it just to get kids playing,? Fife said.
The McGrath league operates out of the CHS gymnasium on Saturdays, from the first weekend in December to the end of February.
‘Early on we had dads that were coaching and it was beginning to be too structured, too much complaining from the parents, about officials about this that and the other,? Fife said.
After the first four years, Fife pleasantly stripped the parents out of the McGrath league and brought in members of the varsity basketball team instead to referee and coach games.
‘I think sometimes our kids play too much in structure and not enough just playing where they can make mistakes and not worry about making mistakes. They will refine themselves rather than just quit trying to do anything,? Fife said. ‘At McGrath I keep it unstructured for a reason, knowing full well that they will get structure as it goes on. I want it to be physical and rough with no complaints. I don’t want them to worry about winning and losing, although we keep score ? and the kids for some reason always know what their win-loss record is. But I could care less.?
In Fife’s view of the McGrath league, not being concerned with individual teams? winning percentage and lackluster play are not part of the same equation.
‘I fully expect kids to be competitive, I want them to always be competitive. But I don’t want them worried about winning and losing at McGrath. It’s almost like backyard ball with a little control.?
The de-emphasis on structure has allowed some, Fife’s own progeny included, to thrive.
‘For instance, if you have a tall kid, the first thing a young coach is going to do is put him with his back to the basket and never let him dribble. Dane (Fife) would have never got the opportunity at 6?4? had he not played McGrath where he learned to dribble the ball and do all kinds of things.?
On the surface the McGrath league is a place where children can play and hopefully learn to love the game of basketball, but beneath the top layer of screeching shoes and balls flowing through hoops lies a deeper purpose. The bonding between the varsity players who staff the league and the kids, ranging from third to eighth grade, creates a cohesiveness to the basketball program as a whole.
‘My feeling is, if our players do a good job with the kids, get to know the kids and talk to them, they will someday want to grow up and be like (current varsity players) Joe Moran or John Kast or Robbie Ronk or Ian Sabbag. They get to know (the players) and then they see our games, they are there on Friday nights, see (the players) win or lose and how they act and then the next morning (the players) are right back with those kids again and the kids can identify with them,? Fife said. ‘It works, it really has worked. I don’t know that we are producing NBA players all the time, but it seems to work for Clarkston.?
When the McGrath league began their were 35 participants, these days there are over 300.
Three weeks of fundamentals begin each McGrath session, while Fife is well aware that most participants value the games which fill the last portion of the schedule he hopes when the kids watch the varsity games, the reasons for teaching the basics become clear.
‘If they come and watch the games they can put (the fundamentals) to use. For instance if they see somebody like Robbie (Ronk) dribble the ball under pressure and how he can go between his legs and the passing and a lot of the things that we do,? said Fife, adding that the experience of working at McGrath often helps the teachers as much as the students.
‘It’s surprising when I hear (the varsity players) talk to the (McGrath) kids during games because they are saying some of the things that I say to them during the (CHS) games. It helps our kids learn how to communicate with kids, it puts them out in the public eye, they have to be responsible and present themselves well to adults. It just seems like a win-win for everybody,? Fife said.
Though the McGrath league fills the alpha role in linking the Wolves to their younger counterparts, the example ripples throughout Clarkston sports.
Clarkston Volleyball Coach Kelly Avenall runs a summer camp for volleyball players beginning with those entering the fifth grade.
‘They are learning the Clarkston system,? Avenall said, adding she can see a noticeable difference in the skill level of kids who work on their game in the off-season.
Avenall is in her third year as the varsity coach at Clarkston, having taken over for longtime coach Gordie Richardson. She hopes in time to set up a McGrath style league for Clarkston’s young volleyball players.
‘I have been writing down things I want to bring in,? Avenall said.
She does not have a timetable for the volleyball league styled like McGrath but thought the spring of 2007 would be a safe estimate.
The concept of varsity athletes passing their knowledge back to the youth is also employed by Clarkston baseball coach Phil Price. Teaching at Price’s baseball and softball camp, is an opportunity to come full circle.
‘I’ve come to this camp since I was six or seven. ‘It’s a nice feeling to see the kids learning from me,? said Mike Navarre, CHS varsity baseball player, when he was interviewed during the camp this past June.
Another facet of Clarkston’s athletic community is direct involvement of coaches with the middle school and junior high sports programs, as well with independent groups set up for younger children.
‘The middle school is automatic. Our program is grades 7-12,? said Clarkston Football Coach Kurt Richardson.
While the terminology, drills and methods at Sashabaw Middle School and Clarkston Junior High School mirror those of the big brother football programs at the high school, the Clarkston Chiefs youth football team is certainly part of the family as well.
‘What’s important is (the Chiefs) keep the kids excited about the game. We don’t want to sour any kids on playing football,? Clarkston Football Coach Kurt Richardson said.
The Clarkston wrestling program operates in much the same manner with the Clarkston Wrestling Club.
‘It’s almost like we are building a wrestling curriculum. The (Clarkston Wrestling Club) is supposed to feed into the junior high,? said Clarkston Wrestling Coach Joe DeGain. ‘Sometimes the terminology is different but we try to design it so there is a single wrestling curriculum.?
DeGain, while mentioning his respect for the parents who organize the CWC, added that while in attendance at CWC practices he has not only shared his methods but also picked up teaching tips for the varsity team.
The culture surrounding Clarkston sports is one that runs deeply through the community. It is easy to see when looking at the explosion of long distance hopefuls in the middle and junior high after the CHS? girls team won three straight state championships. The culture is one that features baseball players attached to the same nickname their father bore while in a Wolves uniform. And that culture, whether over generations or grade levels is surely a Pillar of Clarkston.
Stan Garwood
Stan Garwood hears about problems and tries to fix them.
Having practiced counseling for approximately 25 years in the Clarkston area, he helped many with individual, marriage and other problems.
Garwood’s clinic is the oldest in Clarkston according to his wife Kathy, who credited her husband with helping her get back into work with the school system and work as a grief counselor after raising their family.
Over the years, Garwood was involved in the community as a member of the Clarkston Youth Assistance Board, co-chairing the annual golf fund-raiser. He’s also served as president and member of the Clarkston Area Optimist Club, participated in the St. Daniel Men’s Club, Habitat for Humanity and Lighthouse North.
Over the past four or five years, Garwood has teamed up with others to extend a caring touch to those suffering from the effects of natural disasters through the North Oakland Disaster Relief Team, a group he cofounded with Bob Hadden.
‘It’s great because you’re helping people recover from a disaster who don’t usually have the insurance or support to deal with that disaster,? said Garwood.
NODRT is a coalition of churches, businesses, organizations and individuals in North Oakland County who strive to bring aid to victims of natural disasters. NODRT sent two groups down to help in the Gulf Coast Region this past year to help victims of Hurricane Katrina.
‘It’s amazing how (the experience) changes people. They see life differently and have a much more mature perspective of life. They realize what’s important and what’s not important,? said Garwood. ‘The work is gratifying and I usually seem to get more out of it then the victims do.?
Kathy who’s also been part of NODRT said Hadden and Garwood hoped through NODRT they could participate in the disaster relief efforts among adults, yet make it affordable for those going on the trips.
‘I saw it mushroom from a small group to this large group of people from different churches with their focus on helping those who’ve been through a disaster,? said Kathy.
In addition to his desire to help people, Kathy said Garwood has a passion for the area and supporting its local businesses.
‘He eats at Pete’s Coney because he feels you need to take care of people in your area. He goes to Brose Electric too. He’s adamant about supporting local business,? said Kathy. ‘You know he’s a Clarkstonite because he has a mug at the bake shop.?
Garwood earned a bachelor’s degree in education and psychology at St. Mary’s College in 1966, a master’s in guidance and counseling at the University of Detroit in 1968 and a master’s of social work from the University of Michigan in 1983.
Before coming to the Clarkston area, Garwood worked as a therapist, group worker and supervisor at Macomb Child Guidance Clinic, Inc. in Utica from 1968 to 1982. He also worked at the Macomb Child Guidance Clinic in Mt. Clemens from 1975 to 1980. In 1976, he was a co-founder of the Michigan Association for Infant Mental Health. The following year, he founded the Macomb Association for Infant Mental Health.
The Garwoods moved to Independence Township in 1979 from Warren, Michigan. They raised three kids who were Clarkston High School graduates. Karin (Mitchell) married Steve and has two children Reilly, 4, and Annika, 2. Brian and his wife Sherry have children Nathan, 5, and Alicia, 3. Gordie is married to Tammy.