Another successful year for OAYA

In many ways, 2009 was a tough year across the board as everyone continued to feel the economic crunch.
But Oxford-Addison Youth Assistance (OAYA) emerged strong as ever as it wrapped up another 365 days of helping others and making a difference in families? lives.
?2009 was very successful,? said OAYA Caseworker Hank Szlenkier. ‘We continued to provide a high level of services. Fund-raising was down a little bit, but nothing to complain about. The number of volunteers remains high.?
OAYA is dedicated to preventing juvenile delinquency, child neglect and child abuse through a variety of positive programs.
‘In these trying financial times, you aren’t going to find anything like this,? Szlenkier noted. ‘People don’t have insurance, their jobs are in jeopardy, they’re stressed out. We need programs like this more than ever.?
According to OAYA’s 2009 annual report, presented during a Feb. 25 dinner at Oxford High School, the group helped 96 at-risk youths through casework services provided by Szlenkier; taught 309 sixth-graders the consequences of shoplifting; sent 36 kids to four summer camps; awarded Skill Building grants to 13 youths so they could take part in positive activities and trips; took over 40 youths Christmas shopping at Meijer; and found adult mentors for two youths.
‘I would have thought the economy would have hit worse, but I’ve always been humbled by this community and their willingness to volunteer and provide financial support,? Szlenkier said. ‘I feel truly blessed to be in Oxford and to have the commitment of our sponsors and our contributors.?
Last year, OAYA received private donations from community groups, businesses and individuals amounting to $28,000, according to the annual report.
OAYA received more than $130,000 in funding from its governmental sponsors, which include Oxford Township and Village, Oxford Community Schools, Addison Township, the Village of Leonard and Oakland County.
Considering the work that’s done and the impact that it’s had on local families and youth, Szlenkier believes OAYA is a ‘low cost, highly effective? program.
‘Ninety percent of the youth who receive our services, either casework or other programs, have no contact with the court system, probate or circuit,? he said. ‘The research proves it’s effective.?
In addition to youth services, OAYA also offers programs that teach parenting skills such as the five-week course called ‘The Relaxed Parent: Ending the Power Struggle.?
Listening, dialogue and problem-solving skills are highlighted in this program, which focuses on the belief that parenting becomes more enjoyable and effective when mom and dad understand how stress affects behavior.
Szlenkier admires parents who make the time to attend these classes despite being tired and frazzled out from their jobs. ‘I see them struggling, trying to get in the door,? he said.
That’s why OAYA works hard to make things a little easier for them by providing childcare services and a light dinner. ‘We try to make it as accessible as possible,? Szlenkier said.
For more information about OAYA and its programs, call (248) 969-5177.

If Oxford-Addison Youth Assistance were to select a theme song, it would probably be Frank Sinatra’s classic ‘It Was a Very Good Year.?
That’s exactly what 2008 was for the local group whose mission is to strengthen youth and families while reducing the incidence of delinquency, abuse and neglect through community involvement and a variety of free services.
‘It was the best year ever,? said OAYA Caseworker Hank Szlenkier, who’s been here for 15 years. ‘We sent more youths to camp than ever before in any one year.?
‘Our numbers (of volunteers) are the best ever in terms providing the quality and the quantity of services (needed).?
OAYA celebrated its accomplishments (see box below) and recognized the volunteers who made it all happen last week at the group’s annual breakfast held at Christ the King Church in Oxford.
‘We’re in excellent shape,? Szlenkier said. ‘Our budget is solid. We have eight new board members that we’re training now to move into key positions.?
During the breakfast, three longtime OAYA board members/volunteers were honored for their years of service and selflessness.
Paul Wilhelm, the group’s current treasurer and a past chairman, was recognized for his 15 years of devotion.
‘He’s been with me since almost Day One,? Szlenkier said. ‘I can’t say enough about him. He’s turned out to be my best friend.?
Wilhelm used to own a business in downtown Oxford. Although he’s now semiretired and living in Macomb, he continues to volunteer with Youth Assistance.
‘That’s just unprecedented,? Szlenkier said. ‘The distance he travels, the time that he takes, the years of service . . . He still finds time and has this commitment to Oxford.?
Addison Township Clerk Pauline Bennett was honored to her 10 years of service to OAYA.
‘She’s like steady money,? Szlenkier said. ‘She attends all our meetings and works on several (OAYA) projects through the year.?
?(Bennett) is always there behind the scenes in critical and crucial positions. She doesn’t get the credit that’s due.?
Shanie Williams, an Oxford teacher and 10-year OAYA volunteer, was also recognized for her longevity.
‘She’s served on many committees through the years including our haunted house fund-raiser and Christmas parade,? Szlenkier said. ‘She’s one of those silent, but strong individuals that’s there for us all through the year.?
As always, OAYA is looking for more volunteers in the coming year.
‘We live and breathe by our volunteers,? Szlenkier said.
OAYA needs volunteers to help with its fund-raising efforts and with the Mentors Plus program.
‘We still are looking for a Mentors Plus chairperson,? Szlenkier said. ‘That program’s on the back burner. We don’t have any mentors in Oxford.?
Mentors Plus matches adult volunteers with youngsters ages 5-17 to develop one-on-one mentoring relationships.
‘In these times of woe, with the financial condition our country’s in, there is more need now than ever for our services,? Szlenkier said. ‘We are a cost-effective program that has a proven track-record of helping families during their time of need.?
For more information about Oxford-Addison Youth Assistance call (248) 969-5177.

Because of OAYA …
* 346 sixth-graders at OMS got a lesson on the consequences of shoplifting
* 24 children enjoyed family fun and gifts at the annual Christmas party
* 49 students were sent to five different summer camps designed to build confidence and self-esteem
* 16 at-risk youth engaged in Skillbuilding programs in which they participated in positive, educational activities
* 145 new cases involving at-risk youth were dealt with
* 17 teens and their parents participated in a substance abuse education program
* 18 people participated in parenting education classes
* 24 local youth were recognized for specific acts of compassion, bravery, charity and leadership
* 243 riders participated in the annual Rural Pearl of Ride on the Polly Ann Trail netting $2,104 for OAYA
* More than 350 tickets were sold for the annual Duck Race in Lake Orion which netted $2,592 for OAYA